About Christmas time Han Fei told us the story surrounding Chinese New Year in preparation to teach some aspects of Chinese culture to the Elementary kids she worked with. The story had some interesting points that led to an interesting statement that I mulled over for a while. Read the rest of this entry »
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Part of my story that I’d be crazy not to mention is the influence of Han Fei in warming up my critical thinking skills before my dive into the specifics of LDS history and doctrine.
Han Fei came to stay with us at the beginning of the school year in 2010 from Dahlin, China to teach English at our local high school and to help out with the Chinese Immersion program at the local elementary school that my youngest two children were a part of. We hosted her from late July until the following June- and she was a part of our family. She lived with us through my initial faith transition- but she was also a catalyst for several different points of critical thinking.
Disclaimer- these stories- like all other stories are purely from my point of view. Other people involved may remember things differently. But as far as my memory goes they are as best I remember them.
Story One: A View from the outside
We invited Han Fei to come to church with us her first Sunday in our home. We made it very clear that it wasn’t expected and that we wouldn’t be offended if she didn’t come. She declined, saying she was Buddhist and uninterested. I offered to help her find a Buddhist temple to attend- she declined that as well.
Remember- this is what I hear when I listen to conference. It’s not roses and sunshine. It’s not happy and uplifting. It’s not at all what you were going for when you were “inspired” to send it to me. If you want to know why I’m reviewing conference, or what conference is- go here.
Holland is a current crowd favorite. His talk from this last conference, Lord I Believe, was posted and re-posted and praised over and over- when you count all the pins from Pinterest and status updates from Facebook I think it was the most popular talk from this conference.
I think the reason why it was a crowd favorite is that Holland attempts to acknowledge that people are struggling to believe in the church. Which is good. People are losing faith- at an ever growing rate. Leaving in droves you might even say… or as Marlin Jensen said, “we are in a greater state of apostasy then since Kirtland.”
This was already a topic I was planning on blogging on because it’s something that’s so frequently asked. When I publicly announced my blog on Facebook I pretty quickly got the following two responses. Because they ask what is so often asked, in a way that it is so often asked I’m going to use their posts as a springboard for this discussion. Formatting is mine.